Monday, July 22, 2019 | By: Experience It Photography by Louise Gunderson Shimon
Around 2015, Mona (to whom I referred in Part I of this series) and I kept saying I should photograph her with her horse. Her horse became ill and died; we never did get that photograph accomplished.
Mona and I then talked about me photographing her in her element which was creating art in her gallery that was 100 miles from where I live. We never planned far enough ahead for a) her to feel she was picture-ready, with the same timing that b) I would have my camera gear with me.
However, immediately below is one of her 2015 Facebook pictures from Sylvan Lake in the Badlands.
Completely unexpectedly and tragically, Mona passed away less than two years after the above Facebook post. It was January of 2017 when the flu was wreaking havoc around the country. Mona, the strongest woman I knew at the time, was also diabetic; her health was too vulnerable to survive the flu. To say I was grief-stricken is an understatement. Mona made everyone, including me, feel as if he/she was the most important person in the world.
No one … absolutely no one … had a photo of just Mona that could be enlarged without becoming pixelated/blurry. Numerous photos of Mona at her art shows and out in nature were viewable on social media. But in the immediacy of Mona's impending memorial service, no one had the necessary passwords to access the original images. And social media images had lost a lot of their quality from being uploaded/downloaded.
Her family decided to use the above photo downloaded from Facebook. It showed Mona in nature, which everyone knew she loved.
Using Photoshop to make this image look less pixelated, I was able to enlarge and brighten it (see below and think "heavens shining from above") and have it printed and mounted for Mona's service. (How ironic that Mona had done exactly the same thing for my family when my dad passed away only a few years prior.) Even so, since we were using a download that had been compressed by Facebook, in a 16"-24" print for her memorial service, from head-to-toe Mona was only about 7” tall. That's about the length from your wrist bone to finger tips.
More recently, a good friend’s mother passed away. The family wasn't able to locate a photo that was without distractions and of good resolution. I.e., they didn't have one for her memorial service that would do justice to her legacy. It ended up working out wonderfully, though, that some of the distractions in the photo could be removed with editing, and also a little Photoshop "adding-pixels magic" made it possible for an enlargement to be made.
My point is, in all of these situations (including those in Part I), families were sent scrambling to find a photograph at a time when they were grieving.
A large percentage of people very intentionally go through estate planning by preparing wills and other necessary legal documents. Doing so can help alleviate at least some stress for survivors.
So, we procrastinate, or don’t even really contemplate at all having a photo taken for such a purpose.
What am I suggesting? Stay tuned for Part III.
[Permission has been granted by my friends' family members to include these photographs.]
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